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How to Give Clear Instructions

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How good are you, when a stranger asks you for directions?

Giving clear instructions is one of those skills that looks easy until it goes wrong. You explain a task, the other person nods and the next day (or sooner) they have done something entirely different. It is often the instruction itself that causes the problem.

Clear instructions explains what to do in plain language and the listener can follow it step by step.

Why instructions go wrong

You ask someone to do A, B and C. Then you find out they have done X, P, T and Z. You think how did they come to that conclusion, so you spend time spent correcting it and leaves both of you confused of how it could have gone wrong.

The causes are usually simple: either the listener was distracted, either the wording was vague or either too much was said at once. Addressing these issues prevents the confusion.

Don’t give instructions straight away

Normally the listener isn’t listening and then a wall of instructions hit them all at once. Sometimes an instruction is given to someone who is still typing, scrolling or mid-conversation with someone or just not ready to listen. Build up to the instructions, have a sentence or two beforehand to lead up to the instructions.

Clear instruction starts by getting the person's attention before sharing information. At work, try a short request such as, "Have you got two minutes?" or “You know the other day you mentioned XYZ, I would like you to…” Then pause and make eye contact so they can focus.

Be specific, concise and plain

Plain language is essential, especially with instructions, make it as simple as possible so a 7 year old can follow. Use easy words and organise your message clearly. Explain any technical terms you need to say, because you both need to be on the same page, when you want your listener to follow them.

Specific instructions matter just as much. For example, "Sort out the rota" leaves questions unanswered: what needs changing, by when and what does the finished version look like? Explain the task, deadline and expected result so the other person does not have to guess.

Give one instruction at a time

How much you say is not the same as clarity. One short instruction with 7 words that has a clear outcome is easier to follow than five instructions bundled into one breath. If a task has several steps, break them into a numbered sequence and explain them in order. Pause between steps because your listener needs to process the information. Give them time to ask you questions in between.

Write it down and keep it visible

Written instructions may help the person follow the instructions. For a task at work, you could send a short message, create a checklist in a shared document or email a summary after the conversation.

This gives people somewhere to check details instead of relying on memory. It is particularly useful when they are busy, managing several tasks or need to follow the instructions later.

Add visual support

Add pictures, a slide, a sketch, a demonstration or short screen recording can help a person to visualise what you want them to do. If the task involves a physical action or a particular layout, demonstrate it slowly, then let the other person try while you watch.

Visual examples can make an unfamiliar task easier to understand because people can see what the finished result should look like.

Check understanding without asking "Do you understand?"

This question often invites a quick yes without telling you much. People may nod because they do not want to admit they are confused. So instead try, "If you were to do it from the beginning, what's your first step?" or "Talk me through how you'll approach it." This checks their understanding and lets you correct confusion early.

Repeat, then follow up

Sometimes, summarising or paraphrasing what you said, may allow the listener to pick up things they didn’t hear the first time round. Revisit the key points after a demonstration and follow-up.

Learn to give clear instructions in everyday conversation

These skills matter beyond work. Giving directions, explaining a recipe over the phone or briefing a colleague all require you to explain, to be brief and specific, and check that the message has been understood.

Giving clear instructions is a speaking skill. It means slowing down, finishing your sentences and getting to the point. Voice and communication coaching can help people develop clarity, articulation and presence. Speaking Voices, led by London-based coach Emily Lee in Canary Wharf, helps people communicate with confidence and clarity. Find out more about her services here.

Frequently Asked Questions

Why do people forget instructions?

Sometimes the instruction never fully registers because the person is distracted, focused on another task or the speaker is speaking too quickly without a vision.

How can I sound clear without sounding rude?

Clarity and bluntness are not the same. Start with a warm tone, explain what you need, give a clear deadline or outcome, and check that the person knows what to do.

What should I do if someone still does the task wrongly?

Ask what they understood and how they approached the task instead of simply repeating the same words. The confusion may come from a detail you assumed was obvious, such as a file name, deadline or expected result. Clarify that point and ask them to explain the task back to you.

Does writing instructions down really help?

Yes, especially when a task has several steps. A short email, checklist or shared document gives people something to refer to and reduces the risk of misunderstandings that lead to work being repeated.